AL-TAZKIAH <p>Al-Tazkiah&nbsp;(P-ISSN: <a href=";1463470296&amp;1&amp;&amp;" target="_blank" rel="noopener">2337-747X</a>; E-ISSN: <a href=";1463470296&amp;1&amp;&amp;" target="_blank" rel="noopener">2541-2663</a>) a Journal of Islamic Guidance and Counseling, Published by the Department of Islamic Guidance and Counseling Faculty of Da'wa and Communication UIN Mataram since 2012, can be regarded as the youngest academic journals and have broad enough coverage, because it deals directly with the problem of social life is long and the contemporary. Subjects in this study include textual tudies and field research with the perspective and approach Historical, Normative, Sociological and Psychological. Al-Tazkiah published twice, in June and December</p> en-US (Malik ibnukhalilulloh) (Dwi Widarna Lita Putri) Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000 OJS 60 LAYANAN BIMBINGAN DAN KONSELING PRIBADI SOSIAL DALAM MENUMBUHKAN SIKAP POSITIF SISWA <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontstyle0">There are still many students who violate the rules at school making them hampered to achieve success. Not only that, if this is left unchecked, it will make the character of students not good. The purpose of writing this journal is to fnd out the right way so that each student can obey the discipline at school. Where if this can be done surely the system and purpose of an institution will be easily achieved. Personal social guidance and counseling services are an alternative as an effort to make students obey the rules. Counseling services emphasize change in addressing discipline. By changing negative attitudes such as breaking the rules into a positive attitude that is obeying the order. Learners’ positive attitudes toward discipline can be used as an alternative to changing the rules of curbing and burdensome dicipline into something very useful. And can make students carry out their responsibilities from their heart and willingness not because of coercion or fear of blasphemy, because obeying the rules will lead students to success.</span> </p> Ina Ambar Ambar Wati ##submission.copyrightStatement## Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000 STABILITAS EMOSI PELAKU PERNIKAHAN DINI DALAM MENDIDIK ANAK BALITA <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontstyle0">The rate of early marriage from year to year continues to increase due to economic factors, family internal factors, and social factors. Most early marriages are still middle school / high school students who do not have good emotional stability and tend to do everything they want without thinking about the impact that will occur. Many of the early marriages have children, where in educating children they unconsciously apply permissive education patterns. The personal circumstances and attitudes of each child are different, making the task of educating hard to implement, and influencing the emotional state of parents. The results showed that the emotional stability of early marriages in educating children is not good, this is because early marriages are still easily influenced by negative emotions that can be seen from the emotional response shown. Excessive emotional response is not in accordance with the notion of emotional stability, namely a permanent emotional state, not easily changed, and the response shown is not excessive. In relieving negative emotions and resolving problems that occur, early marriages more often submit to the situation assuming that emotions will be lost if left unchecked, without any effort to fnd a way out or a method of solving the problem accordingly. Although early marriages do not have good emotional stability, some early marriages have been able to maintain their emotional stability by calming themselves down and solving problems that are sources of emotion.</span> </p> Lu’ Luul Jannatunnaim ##submission.copyrightStatement## Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000 KONSEP BIMBINGAN KARIR KOLABORATIF MELALUI PENGUATAN EFIKASI DIRI <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontstyle0">This paper aims to discuss career guidance services from collaborative intervention approaches between institutions and students, as well as families by looking at and practising cognitive aspects, strengthening student self-effcacy or high self-effcacy learners determine students’ positive perspectives on career planning. Strengthening self-effcacy consists of three levels of diffculty, generality and strength. Someone is said to have self-effcacy, if faced with the three aspects above, the higher the self-effcacy possessed by individuals or students, the higher the likelihood that individuals will gain achievements in their careers and prepare for their careers, but in the implementation of career guidance it involves more the family member also participates in the intervention or as a supporter of career planning through collaborative career guidance that emphasizes the basic concepts of collaborative career guidance, principles of collaborative career guidance and implementation that can be done by counsellors with parents in an effort to help strengthen student career planning.</span> </p> Lukman Nulhakim, Malik ibnukhalilulloh ##submission.copyrightStatement## Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000 BIMBINGAN ORANGTUA DALAM MENANGGULANGI ANAK TANTRUM DI LOMBOK BARAT <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontstyle0">This study aims to determine the development of tantrum children and parental guidance in tackling Tantrum Children in Kuripan Utara Village, Kuripan Lobar District. This research is a descriptive qualitative study with a case study approach. The subject of this study is the parents of children who have the behaviour of tantrums and their neighbours. Data collection techniques used are observation, interviews, documentation. The data analysis techniques are used, namely through data reduction, data presentation, and conclusion drawing. Check the validity of the data by increasing perseverance and using source triangulation. The fndings of this study, namely the development of tantrum children in Kuripan Utara Village, have several developments including (a) physical development, (b) emotional development, (c) cognitive development, (d) social development. While the fndings of parental guidance in dealing with tantrum children are (a) moving to another place, (b) distracting the child, (c) talking softly to the child. In this parent’s guidance, the connection with the theory can produce children who will be spared from deviant behaviour when they are big.</span> </p> Musawirin Musawirin ##submission.copyrightStatement## Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000 GENERALISASI BIMBINGAN KONSELING PRIBADI DAN SOSIAL UNTUK REMAJA DI ERA MILENIAL <p style="text-align: justify;"><span class="fontstyle0">The purpose of this paper is to describe the reality of youth in the millennial era about the challenges of the times or the influence of globalization. Threats to adolescents are very complex and how to optimize their strengths and opportunities. In this article try to discuss criminal cases that have occurred since 2014-2017 based on historical facts from the Directorate of Political and Security Statistics Indonesia, it turns out the results of the research are crime data and those who are exposed to crimes continue to increase from years previous. Therefore, the author tries to discuss the role of personal and social counselling as a model for developing or minimizing these crimes. The method used is the literature method and descriptive method. The literature method is the result of someone’s writing from the article and tries to distinguish the results from this article. While the descriptive method is data or results of research from one institution to another. The results of the analysis in this article use a group counselling approach in the view of Alfred Adler and require several stages, namely: a. the stage of forming and maintaining relationships, b. stage of analysis and assessment, c. insight stage and, d. back orientation stage.</span></p> Akhmad Ramidi, Ishak Hariyanto ##submission.copyrightStatement## Sat, 01 Dec 2018 00:00:00 +0000